How to Choose a Dementia-Friendly Hotel for Travel

Traveling with a loved one who has dementia can feel overwhelming, especially when it comes to finding accommodations that meet their unique needs. A hotel’s setup can significantly impact how comfortable and safe you both feel during your stay. By prioritizing certain features and preparing ahead of time, you can create a more enjoyable experience for everyone involved. Let’s explore how to choose a dementia-friendly hotel and make your trip smoother.

What to Look for in a Dementia-Friendly Hotel

1. Simplicity and Accessibility

A hotel with a simple layout can reduce confusion. Look for:

• Avoid motel-style accomodations where a person would immediately be outside in a parking lot or near busy streets if they left the room.

• Hotels with 24/7 staff that would see your loved one if they left the room anytime of the day or night.

• Accessibility features in the room like a walk-in shower and grab bars in the bathroom

2. Quiet and Calm Atmosphere

Busy, noisy hotels can be overwhelming for someone with dementia. Choose accommodations that offer a quiet environment, especially at night. Ask about:

• Rooms away from high-traffic areas like elevators or the pool.

• Soundproofed rooms or quieter wings of the hotel.

3. Safe and Comfortable Rooms

Safety is key when choosing a hotel. Ensure the room has:

• Minimal clutter to reduce fall risks.

• Non-slip flooring in the shower.

• Adequate lighting, especially at night, to prevent disorientation.

4. Staff Who Understand Special Needs

Some hotels may have staff trained to accommodate guests with cognitive impairments. When booking, ask if:

• The staff is experienced in assisting guests with dementia.

• They can accommodate special requests, such as dietary needs or flexible check-in/out times.

Tips for Preparing for Your Hotel Stay

Bring Safety Tools

Along with choosing a dementia-friendly hotel, it can be important to bring a few items with you to increase safety.

• Bring a portable door alarm that doesn't keep the door from opening (in case of a fire) but will alert with a sound if the door opens during the night.

• Night lights with motion activation to be placed on the side of their bed or in the bathroom can make middle-of-the-night bathroom trips much safer.

• Make cards explaining that the person you are with has dementia to pass out to staff. This will alert them to keeping an eye on your loved one and help educate them about how they can help.

Call Ahead

Before booking, call the hotel to discuss your needs. Be specific about what would help make the stay more comfortable, such as ground-floor rooms or wheelchair-accessible sinks.

Bring Familiar Items

Pack items that provide comfort and familiarity, such as a favorite blanket, pillow, or family photos. These small touches can help your loved one feel more at home.

Establish a Routine

Even while traveling, keeping a consistent routine can help reduce anxiety. Try to maintain regular mealtimes, bedtime, and other daily activities.

Prepare for Downtime

Traveling can be tiring, so plan for quiet moments at the hotel. Bring books, puzzles, or other calming activities to help them relax.

Choosing a dementia-friendly hotel doesn’t have to be stressful. By focusing on simplicity, safety, and comfort, you can create a travel experience that feels both manageable and enjoyable. Remember, a little preparation goes a long way in making sure your loved one feels secure and supported during your trip.